MTI 347 - Love, Laughter, and "Made"...Can Soulmates Really Be Made?

Soulmates aren't found. They're forged in the same fire. Work at it even when we get tired. Making up's out of downs. Doing all that it takes. Because soulmates aren't found, they're made. 

Hey Hey I'm Kristin Ostrander. Welcome to music that inspires.

Today I am bringing you a song that goes deep. A song that touches the soul and provokes thought. 

This week I am exploring the profound message behind Spencer Crandall's song "Made," a track that resonates with my own beliefs about love, soulmates, and the enduring commitment required to nurture a relationship. 

With 25 years of marriage under my belt, I've learned a thing or two about what it takes to keep the flame of love burning bright.

Soulmates: Made, Not Found

The concept of soulmates often conjures images of two people effortlessly perfect for each other, destined to cross paths. However, the song "Made" challenges this notion, suggesting that soulmates are not stumbled upon but are instead created through shared experiences and a steadfast dedication to each other. This idea is a cornerstone of my own understanding of love. It's about rolling up your sleeves and committing to the journey, even when the road gets rough.

The Myth of Effortless Perfection

In our conversation, we tackled the unrealistic expectations set by movies and media that paint relationships as fairy tales devoid of conflict or effort. While some couples may experience an instant, flawless connection, the reality for most of us is that relationships demand intentional effort and perseverance. The lyrics of "Made" echo this sentiment, reminding us that the making of soulmates is a labor of love, requiring hard work and dedication.

Love Through a Biblical Lens

During the episode, I also delved into the biblical principles of love, drawing from 1 Corinthians 13. These timeless attributes—patience, kindness, and the absence of envy and pride—serve as a guide for how to treat our partners with the love and respect they deserve. It's about embodying these qualities, even when faced with challenges and disagreements.

Personal Reflections on Love and Commitment

Sharing personal anecdotes from my own marriage, I aimed to inspire and guide my audience toward nurturing healthy and enduring relationships. I believe that reflecting on our relationships and considering the principles of love and commitment can lead to profound personal growth and stronger bonds with our partners.

The Proverbs Study: Anticipating Wisdom

I'm thrilled to be working on a Proverbs study, and I can't wait to share the insights I've gained with you all. The wisdom found in Proverbs emphasizes the power of generosity and the importance of righteous actions. It's a reminder that true abundance and growth come from giving, not receiving—a lesson that's especially relevant in today's world of instant gratification.

Embracing Change and Growth in Relationships

Relationships are living, breathing entities that evolve as we and our partners change over time. I reassured my listeners that there's much to look forward to as relationships grow, especially as couples navigate life's various stages together. For those in a stagnant period, I encouraged perseverance, highlighting the beauty of enduring love, even when it's not immediately reciprocated.

Creating Your Soulmate

The journey of creating a soulmate within your partner is ongoing, marked by growth and change. It's about embracing both the differences and similarities, and recognizing the rewards that come from such efforts. I urged my listeners to consider how they express love and to prioritize giving over receiving in their relationships.

A Song for Your Playlist

I recommended adding "Made" by Spencer Crandall to your playlist, letting its message resonate with you. The song is a beautiful reminder of the gradual and continuous nature of building a soulmate within a relationship. It's a call to love and support each other in a way that reflects the love we've received from a higher power.

Join the Conversation

I'm grateful for the engagement of my audience and invite you to join the discussion on the song and its message. I'm looking forward to a dialogue with Spencer Crandall himself and hope you'll tune in for the next episode of "Music That Inspires."

In love and music, let's continue to inspire each other and cherish the relationships that make us who we are.

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“We create our soulmates out of each other while we constantly work out problems and figure out how to deal with things.” - Kristin Ostrander

TIME STAMPS:

Soulmates aren't found, they're made (00:00:00)

Discussion on the unrealistic expectations of finding a perfect soulmate and the real challenges in relationships.

Forged in the same fire (00:02:01)

The concept of forging a relationship through shared experiences and commitment, as depicted in the song "Made" by Spencer Crandall.

Love is patient and kind (00:07:39)

Detailed exploration of the principles of love and commitment in relationships, based on the Biblical definition of love.

Perseverance and trust (00:13:27)

The importance of perseverance, trust, and protecting the relationship in maintaining a strong and enduring bond.

Practicing love in relationships (00:20:11)

Insights on the practical application of love and commitment in a long-term relationship, including self-awareness and including God in the process.

Finding Your Soulmate (00:21:17)

Discussion on finding and creating soulmates in relationships, emphasizing the importance of love and accountability.

Challenges and Rewards of Long-Term Relationships (00:22:26)

Exploration of the rewards and challenges of long-term relationships, including the importance of growth and change.

Continuous Effort in Love (00:23:33)

Encouragement to continually work on relationships, creating soulmates through love and perseverance.

Conclusion and Invitation (00:24:25)

Closing remarks, encouraging listeners to add the song to their playlist and inviting the artist to discuss the song.

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Thank you for stopping by. See you next week. Kristin